Taking your child out of school in term time: the rules

A wedding abroad, a funeral, a once-in-a-lifetime trip: whether your child may miss school for it is not your decision but the school's, and the rule it applies depends on where you live. In England a school can only grant leave of absence in the cases the 2024 pupil registration regulations list, and the Department for Education does not generally regard a holiday as an exceptional circumstance. Scotland, Wales and Ireland each answer the question differently. This page sets the four side by side.

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What parents should know before asking

Leave is asked for in advance

Leave of absence is permission given before the day. At an English maintained school the regulations require the request to come in advance from a parent the child normally lives with; a note written afterwards explains an absence, it does not authorise it.

Exceptional means exceptional

The Department for Education says it does not generally consider a holiday, or any absence for leisure and recreation, to be an exceptional circumstance. Schools must weigh each request on its own facts and may not grant leave automatically.

The school decides, and sets the length

Only a person the school has authorised can grant leave, and if it does, the school decides how long your child may be away. Asking for ten days does not mean ten days are approved.

Unauthorised absence has consequences

In England, 10 sessions of unauthorised absence within 10 school weeks is the national point at which a school must consider a penalty notice. The guidance's own example is a single week of holiday.

How it works

Asking for leave, in four steps

Whatever system your child's school works under, a request goes better when the reason, the timing and the paperwork are right. Only the second and fourth steps differ between England, Wales, Scotland and Ireland.

1 2 3 4
  1. 1

    Check the reason

    Could the event move to a weekend or the school holidays? If it could, it is unlikely to be exceptional. A cheaper flight is not a reason a school can weigh in your favour.

  2. 2

    Ask in advance, in writing

    Give your child's name, class, the dates and the reason, and attach evidence where you have it, such as an invitation. Your school's attendance policy says how and how early; the regulations in England only say it must be before.

  3. 3

    Wait for the decision

    Until the school agrees, the absence is not authorised. If it agrees to fewer days than you asked for, those are the days that count.

  4. 4

    Plan the catch-up

    Ask what your child will miss and how to make it up. Leave excuses a child from lessons, not from what was taught in them.

In comparison

Absence records: digital vs. paper and phone

Digital with SchuleVernetzt
Seeing the days missedExcused and unexcused days per pupil, for the school year or any period you choose
Reporting illness in the morningParents report their child sick with dates and a reason in the parent portal
Questions to the schoolA message straight to the teachers of your child's class
Explaining the rulesA letter to the whole school or one class, with read receipts
Classic paper register and phone
Seeing the days missedMarks in a register, added up when a report is due
Reporting illness in the morningA phone call to the office, then a note to send in
Questions to the schoolA note in the planner or a call at break time
Explaining the rulesA paper letter in the bag, and no way of knowing it arrived
In detail

Term-time leave in detail

What England allows, and what it does not

In England, regulation 11 of the School Attendance (Pupil Registration) (England) Regulations 2024 governs leave from schools maintained by a local authority; the national guidance applies the same test of exceptional circumstances to every school. Leave may only be given by a person the school has authorised, and only in the cases the regulation lists, among them: to attend an interview for a job or another school, to study for a public examination, for an educational visit supervised by school staff, under an agreed part-time timetable, or — the case most parents mean — when a parent the pupil normally lives with has asked in advance and the authorised person thinks leave should be given because of exceptional circumstances. The Department for Education's statutory guidance, updated in July 2026, adds two points: schools must consider each request individually and should not run blanket policies that grant leave automatically, and a holiday or other absence for leisure and recreation is generally not an exceptional circumstance. If leave is granted, the school decides its length.

Wales, Scotland and Ireland answer differently

Wales uses the same penalty notice approach under its own regulations: the Welsh Government's guidance sets the penalty at £60 if paid within 28 days, rising to £120 within 42 days, lets each local authority set the level of unauthorised absence in its own code of conduct, and names an unauthorised term-time holiday as a case where a first notice may be justified. Scotland's national guidance, Included, Engaged and Involved Part 1 (2019), says term-time holidays should only be authorised where a parent's job prevents leave in the school holidays — it names the armed services and emergency services — and that all other family holidays in term time are recorded as unauthorised; weddings and funerals are usually authorised absence. In Ireland, Tusla's education support service strongly advises against holidays in term time, and every absence, a holiday included, counts towards the 20 days after which the school must report to Tusla.

If the request is refused and you go anyway

The days become unauthorised absence. In England a school that sees a pupil reach 10 unauthorised sessions within 10 school weeks must consider, case by case, whether a penalty notice is appropriate. The fine is £160, reduced to £80 if paid within 21 days; a second notice for the same child within three years is a flat £160, and a third cannot be issued — the local authority takes other action instead, which often means considering prosecution. In court, a parent can face a fine of up to £2,500, a community order or up to three months in prison. None of this is automatic, and schools are expected to offer support before sanctions where the cause of absence calls for it. A family holiday usually is not such a case.

If your child is ill, this is not a question of leave but of reporting sickness — when a school may ask for a doctor's note is covered in School sick note rules.

How penalty notices and prosecution work in detail, from the national threshold to court, is set out in School absence fines.

For families in Ireland, the Education (Welfare) Act and Tusla's 20-day rule are explained in School absence rules in Ireland.

How schools keep excused and unexcused days per pupil without tally marks is shown in Manage school absences.

Attendance without the tally marks

SchuleVernetzt does not replace your school's procedure for leave requests: the school decides as it always has, and the platform has no leave application form of its own. What it takes over is the everyday work around it — sick reports in the morning, an overview of excused and unexcused days per pupil, messages to the teachers of the class, and parent letters with read receipts.

FAQ

Frequently asked questions about term-time holidays

Only if the school authorises it, and in England, Wales and Scotland that is the exception. In England leave may only be granted in exceptional circumstances, and the Department for Education does not generally regard a holiday as one. Scotland's guidance authorises a term-time holiday only where a parent's job rules out the school holidays.

The school. At an English maintained school only a person the school's proprietor has authorised may grant leave of absence, and the regulations require the request to come in advance from a parent the child normally lives with.

The regulations in England only require that the request comes before the absence. How early and in what form is set by your school's attendance policy, so read it or ask the office as soon as you know the dates.

The days are recorded as unauthorised. In England, 10 unauthorised sessions within 10 school weeks — the guidance's example is one week of holiday — is the point at which the school must consider a penalty notice: £160, or £80 if paid within 21 days. In Wales a penalty notice is £60 within 28 days and £120 within 42 days.

In Scotland, absence for a family wedding or funeral is usually recorded as authorised. In England there is no list; the school decides whether the circumstances are exceptional, so explain the occasion and attach the invitation or notice when you ask.

No. The Education (Welfare) Act works through notification and reporting: parents tell the school the reason for each absence, and the school must report a child who misses 20 days or more in a school year to Tusla. Tusla strongly advises against holidays in term time. The Ireland page below explains the rest.
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